Sunday, October 18, 2009

ain't it funny

my bff was just in town for the weekend, her first time in this state and the surrounding areas. in many ways, we're very different, but i often think our similarities over-shadow this aspect our friendship. i debated about what we should do while she was here. sadly, we're both libras, and neither of us could make a decision. i thought she may even be content just chi-laxin and drinking coffee, knowing we didn't have to do anything we didn't want.

night 1: planes lands and we get back to the house- she wants to do something. cool.. however, it dawns on me that hubby and i don't really go out a ton. i take her to main st., downtown small town usa and we chill at a couple bars- it's all good.

next day: one's first visit to st. louis would not be complete without a trip to the Arch: the gateway to the west. she was...underwhelmed. next stop: Delmar Loop- cool shops and shit. meh.

night2: kareoke!!! not a 100% she enjoyed herself.

saturday: attempt at haunted alton: fail. finding haunted cemetery was a success though nothing happened. a visit to the Lemp mansion was ill-found. we ate dinner on the landing and headed back to mi casa.

sunday: made food, watchted a doc on zombies. she decided to see what there was to see on main st. the answer my friend, is nada. main street is as empty as ever on a sunday. visit to the mall: quick. we end up at a coffee shop, then off to the airport.

for me, it was a good weekend. i feel like we did a lot. there is a part of me that is seeing the old partying of my ways has parted and we do more chilln' than gettin cuh-razy. seems like she was expecting more excitement out of this visit, and i didn't deliver. i also saw some of our differences creeping around the edges. i love antique stores and wandering. she doesn't like antiques and kitchsy(sp?) shops aren't her vibe all the time either. now i know if she were to ever come back, i will have a killer itenerary planned